Just got back from camping at Grandma and Grandpa's place, it was very fun!

How do we bring people to Jesus? The church doesn't seem to be telling me.
Allot of people would say this, either because they are incapable of doing otherwise or because they want to elude anything but normal life: We bring people in by example.
That is part of it but how do you do that?
That to me is a simple question, we live by the fruits of the spirit, but really allot of people don't care about what you have or how you behave. I would think that it is rare that someone would look at you and say I want what they have. I would think that it is often, Wow they are well behaved. Then they continue on.
I think we would need to do more if we are able, we need to at least make everyone around us know what we believe. Instead of "Behaving" until someone asks you " what you have" then sharing. If we are around people then they should know what we believe.
How to do that?
Please comment on how you think that we can accomplish that.