Was Jesus a little soft man?
was he 1 of those guys that really didn't have much meat on his arms?
I don't know why but this came to me.

When it was almost time for the Jewish Passover, Jesus went up to Jerusalem. In the temple courts he found men selling cattle, sheep and doves, and others sitting at tables exchanging money. So he made a whip out of cords, and drove all from the temple area, both sheep and cattle; he scattered the coins of the money changers and overturned their tables. To those who sold doves he said, "Get these out of here! How dare you turn my Father's house into a market!"

Jesus drove all those people out of the temple; notice nobody tried to stop him.
Why is that?
No doubt there were guards, and other people to stop him, but they didn't.
Also, when Jesus was being crucified, he lived until they stabbed him with a spear!
You might be thinking "well the other guys lived too."
Those other guys didn't have the same treatment, and they didn't get stabbed.
only their legs were broken.
Now you can kinda see were I am going with this.
God is tough, and he is willing to take allot, shouldn't we try to return the favor at much as we can.