HELP!!!!

Saul died because he was unfaithful to the LORD; he did not keep the word of the LORD and even consulted a medium for guidance, and did not inquire of the LORD. So the LORD put him to death and turned the kingdom over to David son of Jesse. 1 Chronicles 10:13-14

This is a verse that I posted on recently, but last night I was thinking about it and I tried to relate that to my life.
I thought of how I try to fix problems and how I think that God doesn't need to help with this or I can do this. Sometimes we think we can do it and we don't ask God to be involved.
I did this recently when I was thinking of ways to fix a problem I have of not thinking before I act. I thought and thought and I came up with something to, BUT I'm not sure if it is fixing my problem. So last night I went to God with my problem and I asked Him to help me. I am still waiting and thinking and praying for the answer from God.